You’re in a new place, new office, or new class… and the most exciting challenge is finding people like us (PLUs). Here are some thoughts from Pinoy gay and bisexual men on how to spot PLUs:
i think the best way to spot a bi is by deep eye contact… sounds creepy but true… sa campus namin andami kong naiispatan na bi… ung iba nga frat members ba… ung mga astigin ba ang dating… gulat ko na lang yung guy na naispatan ko kala ko str8 talaga… i guess the guys with the same blood feels some sort of “lukso ng dugo” when they see one… har har har…
1. bulging muscles
2. too tight shirts
3. has a ring on some finger
4. has trinkets
5. too curved a back
if you ask me… parang walang reliable way to spot a bi…. iba’t iba yan eh
kaya nga daw RAINBOW ang symbol ng queer folks
dahil walang iisang kulay
1. The Hair.. Str8 guys don’t care a damn with their hairs.
2. If the guy is too neat!
3. Owns more perfume than girls
4. Owns more pair of shoes than their mom.
5. Love high pitch Divas like Mariah, Regine V, Madonna and the likes.
6. Wearing body fit shirts to show their muscles.
I saw an episode in Oprah where they discussed “DL”– Down Low.. About black guys who were into girls and guys. At the same time ha. Malas nung mga babae kasi di nila alam na yung bf/asawa nila e nakikipagsx sa ibang lalake din.. unprotected pa. Kaya nagka HIV sila.
Nakaka-alarm yung episode kasi marami rin palang ganun at parang helpless na ang babae. Kaya kailangan mo talgang malaman kung BI nga ang bf mo. Wala namang sign na bi sila e. Lalakeng-lalake ang mga kilos at hitsura nila. Sabi nung isang DL guy dun, it takes one to know one daw. And the most common pick up places daw was the church. With a single look in the eye, they knew who was BI. Tsk tsk.. I dunno if that can be applied in the Phils but it kinda makes you think, noh?
one key is, while walking in the mall, on campus, wherever, if you spot this guy that you think is bi/gay/whatever, what you do is, look him in the eye. if you looks you back in the eye. definately there is somehting up with him. no str8 guy would look at another guy in the eye unless hes gonna beat the crap out of the other guy.
it happend to me many times… sa lrt, sa sidewalk, sa mall, sa jeep at kahit saang cr… basta kung may masasalubong kang mejo may dating… try mong titigan pre… kapag tumagal ng mga 5 secs, bigla mong iiwas ang tingin mo then after a few seconds tignan mo ulit siya and chek kung nakatingin siya sayo… kapg nagkatitigan ulit kayo ng ganung katagal… presto! game siya pre!
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