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hi migs,
im bob and im 23 years old. i am working here in makati. i admit that i dont read your blog regularly because all blog sites are blocked in the office and we just recently had our internet connection back at home.
i always wanted to write you about my dilemma. i know that it […]

Love can make the most logical and coherent of us bend and melt, leaving us a mangled, deformed blob. Is it right or wrong? Experience tells me that is not the right question — for love is given that power for a purpose. Love, just like fire which serves so many good purposes, […]

How do you rekindle a slowly dying flame? Read on and share your thoughts on Baz’s predicament below.
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hi migs,
i’ve just been recently hooked on your site.. i am online most of the time and one night when i was bored i came across your site.. i think destiny brought me here. you see. […]

MGG reader BlueBaby98 who tags himself “Histrionic Diva-in-Training” in his Multiply blog laments after watching Sex And The City (the movie) and a night out with happily coupled butch gay friends:
… I can’t help but wonder: in a city so flamboyant, why are those whose flames burn the brightest the ones out of place?
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[Conrado de Quiros on sex outside marriage, and gay love. As usual with de Quiros — beautiful, beautiful article. Here’s an excerpt.]
“The idea of a couple, married or not, having sex in order to procreate is hilarious. It conjures the image of them hard at it (no pun intended for the male partner), enduring the […]

I was reading this piece entitled “Exclusive Love” by Bob Garon, the famous ex-priest, as he talks about fidelity in marriage. I thought it was something applicable even outside marriage, and even outside the usual heterosexual partnership. There is something to learn here. I edited the piece to a form suitable for most […]

Ipikit mo ang iyong mga mata. Dahan-dahang buksan ang bibig, isiping may ipinapasok na kung anong kay sarap. Kay linamnam. Katakam-takam. Mainit-init, naghuhumindig. Pagkatapos ay lalasapin pang lalo habang ang dila’y lumilingkis sa pagnanasang lalo pang tumindi ang kasarapang natatamasa.
Pagkamulat ng mata, sabihin ang mga kataga: masarap, malinamnam, katakam-takam.
Pero teka, kaibigan, ipikit muli ang […]

Here is an exchange of letters between two boyfriends in a long distance relationship — one is Aljor a seafaring engineer, and the other, my blogging friend Dencio, the one who was left behind waiting for Aljor. (Aljor spends 9 months on board, and 3 months here in Manila. The contract ends 5 years […]