Half Crazy
(Another letter sender that touched my heart — parang naka-relate ako!)
“Dear Migs, thank you for having this blog. I visit it everyday, and it was my bf… uhmmmm, ex-bf, who told me about it. Sadly, we broke up just recently. Last night, I was at Bar Uno, yung bagong comedy/karaoke bar diyan sa Timog Avenue na tambayan ng mga PLU. I was with a group of friends, having fun, until may isang guest na kumanta ng “Half Crazy” ng Freestyle. First stanza pa lang nung kanta, nangingilid na luha ko. Parang tinamaan ako ng kidlat. Naka-relate ako masyado. Three years na live-in kasi kami ng ex ko, we lived in a condominium in Greenhills, tapos when we separated, siya ang umalis, ako na lang ang natira doon. Every night pag-uwi ko from work, I would feel the condo is too big just for me. And then when I prepare dinner, ngayon laging sobra, di na ako sanay kasi to cook for just myself. Kaya doon sa first stanza pa lang ng kanta, “Know I havent slept a week at all… Since you’ve been gone… And my eyes are kinda tired… From crying all night long… Know I’ve never been too good at cooking just for one… It’s so lonely here without you darling… Come back home.” While the guest in Bar Uno was singing di ko talaga napigilan mapaiyak… then napansin ko na lang pati yung guest na kumakanta, umiiyak na rin. Lalo tuloy ako napaiyak. I want to get back with my partner but I really think that is not the right thing to do. Our separation is healthy for both of us, yun nga lang talagang nakaka-miss siya. Haaaay… Magpapasko pa naman. ~Chris”
Dear Chris, to tell you the truth I cannot find consoling words to say kasi parang your story sounds so familiar. I’ll just post the MP3 and lyrics of “Half Crazy” and we can both listen to it while expressing our grief for a relationship that just ended. Take care, Chris. And to all readers, I do encourage you to leave a comment for Chris here.
Half Crazy
by Freestyle
Know I havent slept a week at all
Since you’ve been gone
And my eyes are kinda tired
From crying all night long
Know I’ve never been too good at cooking just for one
It’s so lonely here without you darling
Come back home
‘Cause I’m half crazy
Feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy
Worried you’d find someone else to love
Know life hasnt been much fun at all
Since you’ve been gone
And my eyes being to feel
Each time I hear a sound
I spent every minute asking myself
What went wrong
Can’t we try to talk it over baby
Come back home
‘Cause I’m half crazy
Feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy
Worried you’d find someone else to love
But baby there is no-one else
Half crazy
For everything you saying
Half crazy
No one else could love you like I do
‘Cause I’m half crazy
Feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy
Worried you’d find someone else to love
But baby there is no-one else
Half crazy
For everything you saying
Half crazy
No one else could ever love you
No one else could ever be
Half crazy
Feeling sorry for myself
And I’m worried you’ll find someone else
Feeling sorry for myself
Half crazy
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December 20th, 2006 at 1:18 pm
thats hot!
December 20th, 2006 at 1:48 pm
chris, follow your heart. yon naman ang importante e. at the end of the day, you ask yourself, ano ba ang magpapasaya sa yo?
yun lang.
December 20th, 2006 at 2:05 pm
tis the season for separations!!
i am kulot, the one who sent an email to migs about growing old with my partner…
and yes, after spending almost 8 of my happiest years with my partner, i broke up with him last week and he finally let me go last night. we loved and still love each other so much, we didn’t have issues on our relationship, we were not bored, we were still like newlyweds. but society’s pressure lead to confusion which ultimately lead to separation.
true enough, you then seem to get devoured by negative thoughts, and all you see is a bleak future. you seem to run out of constructive advices for yourself and positive thoughts. you’re like a masochist seeming to enjoy basking on depression.
and you just tend to grip on the lame cliche, “everything will be fine.” you just keep on wishing that one day, you wake up ready to smile again, and ready to fall again.
to chris, why i am saying these things? i know that when you realize that you’re not the only one hurting at this very moment, that you’re not alone, somehow it will make you feel better. with this kind of dilemma, no advice really seems clear, logical or rational.
napipilayan tayong lahat at kahit ano pang ipahid nating gamot, hindi agad gumagaling ang pilay, hindi agad nawawala ang sakit. panahon lang ang tunay na nakapagpapahilom. ngunit pag gumaling na ang pilay natin, magsisimula tayo muling lumakad, sumayaw at tumakbo. LAHAT TAYO NAPIPILAYAN, PERO LAHAT TAYO AY GUMAGALING DIN.
December 20th, 2006 at 2:16 pm
KULOT! omg! i’m stupefied. i didn’t see that separation coming. but you know, what i appreciate most is your ability to get outside of yourself and see things more objectively, despite the grief you yourself, i would suppose, are going through. bilib ako sa iyo! indeed, this is one of the most fulfilling moments in my blogging life as Migs, the Manila Gay Guy. Meeting and sharing thoughts with folks like you who get me inspired to still live life passionately come hell or high water, and yes, despite this wild, crazy world.
December 20th, 2006 at 2:28 pm
hi migs…sana magkaroon ng grand EB soon ang lahat ng luhaan…hehehehe!! okrayin natin mga ex natin..hahahha!!!
misery loves company, doesn’t it?
December 20th, 2006 at 3:15 pm
Mine ended 1.5 months ago after 6 years. The relationship just went pffffft. He vanished without a trace (or ayaw lang talagang magpakita). I’m still clueless.
For Chris, you will always find someone better than the last. Wish for me too.
Alvin
December 20th, 2006 at 3:29 pm
It is really normal that you are going to miss him specially if you had good times together. I can relate to you actually, my lover migrated to another country and we’ve been together for so long. I could even say that he has not been the perfect partner for me and yet i miss him terribly. I am sure, time will come and you have moved on already and there is someone out there wanting to share his life with you.
December 20th, 2006 at 3:31 pm
kulot, grand EB talaga? ngeee. di ako makakasali, nagkabalikan kami ng kulot ko. pero para lang makasali, pwede ring hiwalayan ko sya. hehehe
December 20th, 2006 at 3:49 pm
Thank you Migs for sharing my email here. Hay. Hanggang ngayon tumatagaktak pa rin ang luha ko - kasi naman on repeat mode ang “Half Crazy” sa ipod ko!!!
Tama si Kulot:
At dahil sa post na ito, naglabasan ang mga kapwa nating may hinaing sa puso. Indeed, there is strength in numbers. Agree ako sa EB suggestion ni Kulot kaso ayaw ko naman okrayin ang ex natin… sana camaraderie kuning-kuning lang. kasi like migs, naniniwala ako sa kasabihang:
P.S. Salamat din pala kina Kulot, Mandaya, Goodguy/Badguy, at Alvin.
December 20th, 2006 at 5:04 pm
yur simply awesome migs!!! request ko naman yung annie batongbakal ni tonie gonzaga please migs
December 20th, 2006 at 6:55 pm
chris, dollow your heart, wag mo hayaan mawla sau minamahal mo, after three years ngaun kapa ba, gigive up…isipin mo nlng ilang taon ung pinagsamahan nyo at halos lahat ng problema nalampasan nyo na,its another trial yan para sa inyo dalawa, wag mo give up, pakinggan mo puso mo, at gamitin mo rin utak mo, wag puro puso heheheh mahirap un.. anyway pagusapan nyo ano problema nyo.. i know kaya nyo yan.. ako nga mag two two years na kami ng hubby ko, at first long distance relationship, at ngaun dito na me sa spain with him.. medyo nagkakaproblema kami dahil narin sa ugali ko, minsan kac iwan ko bakit pinipili natin masaktan puso natin, sa huli kakabati kami ng hubby ko… i know iba ung case mo, pero i hope soon magkakabalikan na kau, just dont forget to pray and ask GOD for guidance,, soon will be a lot more better…just think about how long kau nagsama ngaun kapa ba gigive up?…GOD bless always and merry x-mas
December 20th, 2006 at 7:38 pm
wow..the song does get to you. ive got sort of a teary eyes aswell. i guess this song gets to people who is single and miss having someone special in their life especially now that its almost christmas. Well CHRIS, stay strong man.
December 20th, 2006 at 8:49 pm
u know, reading all your stories just make me seem immature with life itself. first of all, im confused… very confused in the sense that i never experienced any relationship. that’s right, no syota since birth. Though i’m not bad looking-if i may say so myself(hehe), i’v always felt afraid in meddling with peoples feelings and to what may people say if “I did something.” I must tell u guys that all of you are very lucky that youve experiece love, though not always good but existent.
ps.i am a 20 year old virgin.
December 20th, 2006 at 11:59 pm
Hi Everyone,
It seems that a lot of gay couples have broken up this season? Bakit kaya? Must be the weather, they need more heat hehehe.
I just want to tell you broken hearted people out there that life will go on. Though, the healing process will be so hard kasi diba usually masakit yung gamot. I think makaka-gamot lang diyan is time. Mahirap pero kakayanin, I’ve read before in this blog that we are made of strong stuffs. Eventually, we will survive.
For me, I suffered that too but the difference is I didn’t open my heart anymore to fall in love again. I just have this strong wall. Plus, everytime I think I will fall in love biglang nawawala ung feeling. Dahil siguro naalala ko yung sakit. Natanim na kasi sa utak ko na gay relationship never last. Madaming nagtatagal, 6, 8, 10 years … pero I have the notion na wala rin magyayari. Ilan lang naman ang successful na tumanda na sila sila parin magkasama. I don’t know the secret pero siguro di ko na malalaman yun.
Don’t take me wrong, pero I am happy being single, careless and free. Pero sana di kayo magaya sakin. Nasanay na to be single. I don’t even play around. Masaya nako with my family and friends. They are my comfort zone. So I suggest din sa mga broken hearted na run to your family sila rin ang makakaintindi sa inyo in the end. Or if not, sa mga kaibigan.
Wahhh! sobrang drama na! This is the season to happy and gay! Kaya tama na muna ang iyakan.
Love you all!
December 21st, 2006 at 1:10 am
Chris…
I’m sorry that you have to go through so much pain. I think that a lot of people - straight and gay - can truly say they know how you feel and what you are dealing with. I’ve gone through this twice with people I loved (and said they loved me) but in the end I had to be the strong one and say this is not fair. You mentioned that it is HEALTHY that you two are now apart. That is important to keep in mind!!!! The reasons right now, that you want this person back is you are in pain, and there is a sense of comfort - being that you know this person , the good and the BAD, and it’s easier to want to go back to that than to take a step forward in your life and try something new, meet someone that you have to get to know and who has to get to know you. But remember this…people don’t change, only situations do. Your ex will still be the same person that you know is not healthy for you. He may seem to have changed, etc, however, the only difference is that he may be finding it difficult to move on as well. Don’t let any false sentiments make you think he’s learned his lesson and that he has realized he can’t live without you. The only thing that has changed with him is that you are not with him right now. If you would decide to get back to him or take him back…he would soon be back to the same person you came to realize was unhealthy for you.
You’ve taken the first step, Chris. I applaud you for being able to recognize the relationship for what it was/is at the end and for admitting that. That’s healthy. I know the pain, I know you want to pick up the phone and call him, I know you want to run into him, I know you want him to call you and say “I’m sorry”, I know you want to hear his voice, feel his embrace, etc….but in an unhealthy relationship someone has to be the strong one and say “as much as I want this, I can’t get trapped again.” Be the strong one…they always come out on top and find true happiness. There is a reason this happened - and that reason is to clear the path for the person you are really meant to be with and who will love you as much as you love them, who will put you before themself, your needs before theirs and value you for WHO you are, not WHAT you have to give him. As we say in the States “That which does not kill us only makes us stronger”.
Good luck to you Chris. You have a lot of friends. I want to wish you a Merry Christmas and to tell you to look forward to a new year, 2007 - the year of Chris!
December 21st, 2006 at 2:17 am
sana ganun lang kadali noh? yes follow your heart pero ano ba pwede natin gawin? eh nung nasa atin pa ung tao di nga natin napigilang umalis, ngayon pa kayang wala na sya? aminin na natin, sa sitwasyon natin, mahirap paniwalaan ang isang happy ending na love story.. siguro masanay na tyo dun. pero habang nandiyan pa.. enjoy na lang natin.
December 21st, 2006 at 6:37 am
waaaa…… grabe… i can relate to that story… we are all half crazy when we fall in love di ba???
December 21st, 2006 at 6:43 am
To all broken-hearted people (pati na dun sa hindi), this I say:
“LOVE, and when it hurts, LOVE SOME MORE.”
Merry Christmas!
December 21st, 2006 at 7:36 am
para sa mga kafatid na nasawi sa pag ibig, eto ang kantang bagay sa atin!!!!!
I STILL BELIEVE IN LOVE
After all the tears i’ve cried
You’d think I would give up on love
Get off yhis line
But maybe i might get it right this time.
I was there as passion turned to pain
Sunshine turned to rainy days
Yet here I am
Ready to begin once again
All my life I’ve been a dreamer
Dreamin dreams that always broke in two
But I still believe in love
And I love believing
Maybe you can make my dreams come true
Here content with who I am
I’m reachin out my hand to him
Once again
At least I know I’ve made myself a friend.
maligayang pasko po!!! bading lang po!!!!!
December 21st, 2006 at 10:46 am
hi chris! mike here! i just want to share this article to encourage you: LET IT GO!
There are people who can walk away from you; and hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to…LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ..LET IT GO!!!
If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth LET IT GO!!!
December 21st, 2006 at 11:53 am
Oh my….
Kasali rin ako sa broken heart club na ito. Kakabreak lang namin nung BF ko na last Monday na inaakala kong makakasama ko habang buhay.
Manhid na ako, wala na akong maramdaman. Wala nang luha, pero I feel very empty and useless.
Lintek, sana malagpasan ko ito.
Di ko na rin alam ang dapat kong maramdaman, di ko na rin alam ang dapat kong gawin, wala na akong maisip.
Lagi kong nasasabi sa sarili ko, parang ang sarap maglaho.
Sight.
December 21st, 2006 at 4:10 pm
Time will heal all wounds. For now your best gift is the number of people who are willing to listen even if you dont know them.
At this time of the year, the angels in Heaven are really busy so sometimes He uses regular people.
You take care. It’s difficult not to miss him but at least, he gave you three years of his life. When some of us didn’t even get to be loved by others.
December 21st, 2006 at 6:49 pm
there will always be time for everything. if you get hurt, it may take sometime to stand up and get healed although it takes time get the pain out. remember that everything happens for a reason.
December 22nd, 2006 at 1:34 am
hi migs,
I was really surprise to read on your blog, because this is not something that would usually get my interest. Actually a very close friend of mine told me about it, gave it a shrug and never really visited it until one day that I was dying of boredom that I got the chance to click it, because I have nothing to do, I said to myself why not view it, since then I saw myself clicking your blog every chance I get. It was really fun, reading some of your posts
and I can tell that you are one interesting person. And I can relate to some interesting stories that you experienced.
The pics that you post here are really awesome, thanks for those wonderful “beings” with heavenly bodies that I frequently lust for,since my imagination can only get me this far it is a delight at the end of the day to get a glimpse of those beautiful men and read stories that I can relate to.
But I’d like you to know that I was particularly touched by this entry. I guess that your reader, Chris and I share the same experience. I believe that everyone of us has this moment where you find yourself some comfort from a song. I too, was a product of a broken relationship, and I too found solemn or you may call it comfort from the song “If the feeling is gone” originally sung by Ella Mae Saison and was later revived by Kyla.
It was at the time of Kyla’s radio tour on 93.1 that I heard of the song again, which at that exact moment was the 1st week when my partner then and I, said our goodbyes. I didn’t realize I was crying my heart out until the song vanished from the thin air.
I found myself pouring out a lot of tears, sobbing and wearily lost at that exact moment. I have to stop the car to let more tears come out. I called up my bestfriend, who knew about the break up, he was so worried about me that he wanted to rescue me right on that spot in De La Rosa Makati where I just got off from work. I told him that I’d be fine ‘and assured him that I’ll be fine on my way home.
I got home safe of course, but that moment was really a surprise to me. I really don’t cry over somebody or fret about it for so long, but that song opened up the flood gates of my pent up emotions. It got me so vulnerable. I can’t help it and I just let it come out.
I spent the whole night listening over that song, crying and sobbing until I can’t cry amore.
December 22nd, 2006 at 1:48 am
…..I say to Cris that you just cry it out, it really helps, yeah i know it’s a cliche that we hear our friends often say “iiyak mo lang lahat yan, makakatulong”
but it really does.It did a great help on me. I guess sometimes, it’s not bad to admit that we are only human beings, capable of getting hurt, and when we experience it, always remember that it will not make us less of a man if we just cry it all out. Take my advice Cris, and you’ll find yourself on the way to recovery.
To migs, more power and I hope to read more interesting stuff from you!
jb here
December 22nd, 2006 at 2:18 am
Hey JB i’m glad to know you enjoy some of the posts here. Thanks and hope to get to know you better too
December 22nd, 2006 at 4:56 am
“Take any emotion - love for a man, or grief for a loved one, or what I’m going through, fear and pain from a deadly illness. If you hold back on the emotions - if you don’t allow yourself to go all the way through them - you can never get to being attached, you’re too busy being afraid. You’re afraid of the pain, you’re afraid of the grief. You’re afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say, ‘All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognise that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment.’â€
- Tuesdays with Morrie, pp. 103-104
December 22nd, 2006 at 4:59 am
I’m a constant reader of your blogs… thanks for posting interesting topics… this is actually my first time to send a reply, been with you for quite sometime now… thanks again!
December 22nd, 2006 at 6:14 am
@BR - thanks I appreciate your posting a comment. Don’t be afraid to express your opinions here - you’re always welcome. Everyone is. That’s what makes this site interesting — it’s not just my thoughts that can be read but other people’s opinions as well. thanks!
December 22nd, 2006 at 11:29 am
TO GAGO
I’m an 18 year old virgin. haha… I’m afraid of commitments because I don’t want to give everything I have to the wrong person.
Hope to hear something from you.
nakarelate ako.
December 22nd, 2006 at 3:38 pm
[…] Chris of the Half Crazy post wrote: After talking with a friend about my recent breakup I realize I have a Mentos heart. Hard outside, but soft and chewy inside. Outside I exude an aura of insensitivity, yet inside I am the same as everyone else — emotional, illogical, all crazy heart. My problem is that I am able to control my heart with my head, so much so that in relationships it seems I do not really love at all. The outside shell of my heart seems to have been hardened by too much thinking and too much analysis. One flick of a finger, perhaps a mistake committed by my partner, makes me want to boot him out of my life just like that. And I figure, that is not love. Have I been mistaking it as love yet the truth is this Mentos heart never really knew how to love? Three years in a relationship, and yet I do not know how to love? Unacceptable! And maybe that is why I say I have a Mentos heart. I do not know how to really love just because I over analyze things, and that I let my head rule my heart too much. Thus no one has ever really gotten through to my soft and chewy inside. The outside shell has to crack. And I wish for someone to help me, teach me, how to do just that. P.S. Thank you to all readers who left me a note in the Half Crazy post. […]
December 25th, 2006 at 4:27 am
oo nga ba’t di kaya tayo magkitakitang mga hearthbroken
kaso late na pala tong post ko .
meri xmas na lang
December 25th, 2006 at 8:30 pm
dear chris,
i was touch by ur dilemma right now but i want you to read mine hoping for u to feel blessed more than i do.here it goes….
i am 45 years old bank manager in makati b4.my 8th year relationship just ended last march this year.it broke me into pieces after calling it quits for reasons that i cant breath anymore and i know that things are not healthy for both of us.after the break -up i cant think straight, i feel so hurt and lonely, depressed and feeling low.slowly i even lost my interest in my job for 25 years of service and i eventually resigned.i went to america to heal and i feel that i needed a new environment to be able to breath again.Iwas wrong coz after staying there for 4 mos.i went back here in the philippines because my depression and loneliness got worse.i am staying now in the family’s ancestral home in nueva ecija which feels so strange to me because of my long absence here.my mother and my older brother are my companion now.i thought that i can heal my wounds here with their help and moral support but i did not get any of it but instead puro sisi ang inabot ko sa kanila.it like adding insult to injury.i tried to commit suicide just recently but i survived it unfortunately.i do not know how to feel and what to think anymore or sometimes manhid na ko sa pagikot ng mundo.pero alam kong buhay pa ko at dapat ko pa ring ipaglaban ang karapatan kong mabuhay sa mundong ito.next year i will go bank again in america to try a fresh start.wish me luck.m wishing u also all the best.may my darkest moment be your enlightenment.happy holidays.goodluck.
December 25th, 2006 at 9:38 pm
Dieselboy - that was so heart wrenching! by sharing your experience here, you help us get enlightened, and your life lesson is multiplied a thousand times over in each our own lives. i wish for you fortitude, to help you stand up and face the world with renewed strength and vigor for life. cheers!
December 27th, 2006 at 5:48 pm
Reading the numerous comments here…
I’m starting to believe na wala talagang naglalast sa ganitong relationship..
Minsan naisip ko, wag na lang ako mag engage sa relationship since maghihiwalay din naman.
If I can be happy being alone, and will just be hurted with somebody, why not choose to be happy and free?
Hay, Im afraid parang… wag na lang.. ayoko nang masaktan ulit.
January 28th, 2007 at 12:55 pm
sumtimes its much better to be alone and unwind…
though leaving a life alone is hard, there will oweiz be sum1 w8ng, destined for u
February 23rd, 2007 at 3:43 am
Teenie-tiny corrections lang po…
Just wanna say na i’ve loved this song since elementary days ko pa. And i think the original version is the best. So full of emotions, parang talagang napi-picture mo yung singer na nagpipighati at nagmamaka-awa (nagpipighati’t nagmamaka-awa daw oh…!!!).
“Tong version ng Freestyle kasi masyadong pa-R&B na pa-cute… (sorry…)
Know I havent slept a wink at all since you’ve been gone
And my eyes are kinda tired from crying all night long
Know I’ve never been too good at cooking just for one
It’s so lonely here without you darling come back home
‘Cause I’m half crazy, Feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy, Worried you’d find someone else to love
Know life hasnt been much fun at all since you’ve been gone
And my eyes being to feel each time I hear our song
I spent every minute asking myself “What went wrong?”
Can’t we try to talk it over baby come back home
‘Cause I’m half crazy, Feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy, Worried you’d find someone else
But baby there is no one else
Half crazy for everything you’re saying
Half crazy, no one else could love you like I do
‘Cause I’m half crazy feelin’ sorry for myself
Half crazy, worried you’d find someone else to love
But baby there is no-one else
Half crazy for everything you saying
Half crazy, no one else could ever love you
No one else could ever be
Half crazy, feeling sorry for myself
And I’m worried you’ll find someone else
Feeling sorry for myself
February 23rd, 2007 at 3:54 am
There’s really no gay relationship na nagla-last.
(Bago po mag-violent reaction mag-isip-isip muna…)
I’ve seen it all. From “squatter” gays to the alta-sociedad gays, wala talaga.
At kung meron man, yun yung nagkakasundong puwede silang pumatol sa iba basta/pero sila talaga ang magka-relasyon at sa isa’t-isa sila uuwi (kung live-in relationship).
Meron ding nakikipag-threesome sa guy na mapapagka-sunduan nilang pareho nilang gusto o nagjo-join sila ng orgies (or something like that).
Pero kung ang usapan eh man to man, monogamous relationship that would last more than three years (or even shorter period of time), i’m really sorry to burst the bubble of those that still have illusions about it but walang nangyayaring o mangyayaring ganun.
Again, based from my years of experience and observation lang po. I’m not being jaded or pessimistic lang.
Nagiging totoo lang po ako…
May 10th, 2007 at 1:27 pm
I feel with you Chris… I know how painful it is, I can almost imagine the hell of your sufferings.. but go with whatever makes your heart happy…
I know how big a shoe-box can be if there’s only one piece of shoe left in it… it can turn you upside down… pain would always be at all the corners… hay! I know how it feels being killed by the fact that something you’ve been keeping for quite sometime has just gone out of your life in just a flick of a finger… but no matter what happen… keep your heart open ok! Everything lasts as long as you know how to make it last!
October 27th, 2007 at 1:58 pm
it so sad..kakabreak lang namin ng bf ko kahapon.. napaka hirap mag move on but time will heal all wounds just stay strong.. huhuhuh..