I assume that most of my readers are pretty much comfortable with who they are — you know, being gay and all — BUT I also know that a good number may still be going through some kind of confusion. Something to the tune of:
Am I REALLY gay?
Maybe this is just a phase?
I am feeling something different, but I don’t want to be gay.
If you are one of these folks, I tell you: it’s normal. Here’s the bomb I want to drop: going through such confusion does not automatically mean you are gay. I believe that being gay is still a combination of a tendency and a decision. This is a controversial topic and I put that stake in the ground as to my stand.
Now, to my question — are you one of these confused or “curious” folks? (There are other terms actually being used: tripper, straight-curious, straight tripper, discreet, bi, g0y, etc…) If you are any one of these, I invite you, send me an email at migs[ at]manilagayguy[ dot]com, or better yet drop me a note using the contact form here. Tell me what bothers you, tell me what questions are floating around in your head, how you feel, and what you have in mind… maybe I, or someone reading this blog, could share a piece of their mind. You have full control to the level of anonymity you want to take. And if you don’t want any of your messages published you may say so, and your wish is my command. I echo Joe D’ Mango… sometimes, letting it out can make a big difference.
Be happy, people!
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