He-he-he! Now on to the real topic of this post…
Even with a partner/boyfriend, would you still go to bi/disreet/gay chatrooms?
One evening, I was having coffee with a gay friend who brought along his partner. They have been living together for 4 years already. In the middle of the conversation I found out they were still, each on their own, chatting with other folks in gay/bi/discreet chatrooms like guys4men, Yahoo, etc. That was a big surprise for me. Excuse my being Maria Clara, but isn’t that tantamount to being unfaithful? They said they were there “just to meet new friends.”
In another instance, this time in Bassilica Bar in Malate, I was with another set of friends, including this gay couple who told me the same thing — that they, each on their own, still go to guys4men to “just chat” with other PLUs.
I thought this would be a good mental exercise for me — to ponder on this negative reaction and get to know which part of my value system goes berserk as these stories are told. Maybe I’m too conservative? That my idea of gay relationship is too square? Too hetero-like? Help me out, I’d be interested to know other people’s thoughts.
What do you think?
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