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Barkading, barkadang bading

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They start young, huh? Is there such a thing as being too young to be gay? What do you think?


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49 Responses to “ Barkading, barkadang bading ”
  1. nah…i started to realized im gay when i was about 4…

  2. Well, being gay is not a choice. I strongly believe “in-born” siya. It’s up to him kung kelan niya mare-realize yun…and the manifestations are getting stronger as you grow up.

  3. No. But there is such a thing as being too young to wear bandana tops and shaving eyebrows.

  4. hear hear to misterhubs:)

  5. blueharajuku

    Jul 20, 2007
    Reply

    see, sexbomb is a great influence to children…

  6. While it’s not the most desirable thing to see, if that’s how they want to express themselves, I see no point in stopping them. Age has nothing to do with it.

    Our individuality and freedom of expression are fundamental rights - as long as they don’t expect me to hang out with them, haha.

  7. OMG… little bro ko yun!!!

    kidding heheheh

  8. Fernando IX

    Jul 20, 2007
    Reply

    gosh, thank goodness i wasnt like that when i was younger otherwise my family would have disowned me for bringing them shame..

    mga ineng, mag-aral muna kayo bago makipaglandian.. gayahin nyo ako, tingnan nyo ngayon dahil nag-aral ako manggupit ng buhok.. successful hairdresser na.. nyahahaha

  9. to each his own yan.

  10. That is basically what we call “Freedom of expression and choices”. Wala na lang pakialaman ng mga gusto at ayaw ng bawat isa for as long na di ka makaagrayado ng buhay ng ibang tao. Pag nangyari ito, tiyak na tatahimik na ang buong mundo. I rest my case….

  11. i admire them…for having the courage o wear those stuffs!!! hindi ko kayang gawin yan!!!

  12. Courageous, confident. They look fabulous. :) With regards to fashion sense, hayaan na lang natin ‘yan, cause their taste will change and become better naman as they grow older. Look at them girls go ‘n pose. It’s as if they’re giving it to the MGG readers and their straight-acting, “bi-curious”, muscle and abs consternations!

  13. chriscapade

    Jul 21, 2007
    Reply

    kakalowka ang pic na yan.. It always makes me laugh.. hahaha.
    sana manay nagpahaba na rin kayo ng hair para mas may effect. ay kaso baka di pwede sa school ano?
    anyway.. goodluck sa inyo!

    Hi Migs..

  14. ang sarap magpakatotoo.
    i’m proud of these teenagers

  15. First timer

    Jul 21, 2007
    Reply

    Reading comments here and in other sites, may it be for queer nor straight, makes me realize that the idea of freedom of expression and thought is often abused or taken forgranted here in our country to cater to one person or to one group’s gain.

    Yes, it’s freedom of expression but there are still certain moral standards that we have to keep in mind. No, these kids are not doing anything wrong but yes i agree to one of the comments earlier by Fernando IX…

    Anyway, even us lawyers, don’t have a clear definition on when the case is “Freedom of Expression” or “Misuse of our Freedom of Expression.” Masyado kasing matatalino ang mga pinoy, we always find loop holes in anything, especially us gay men…

  16. not to be mean or anything,
    but they look like a bizzare
    version of Sex and the City. haha.

    anyway, i love that they can
    express themselves physically.

  17. they seem to be the most emancipated fags…no inhibitions..i mean, they’re just showing their true colours! Period!

    Go mga mare!

    Laban nang Laban!

  18. Haha. Like jholou, I knew I was gay since I was a kid, but I never got the urge to go all female. I also agree with misterhubs. That they may be too young to start using those things without fully understanding the implications of using them.

  19. i’m in a toss up. on one side there’s individuality, on the other side is parental responsibility.

    you wouldn’t want your younger sister all hoed up, do you?

    same goes for gay young boys. we should raise our gay young boys to be self-respecting and tolerant of what others may feel about them. and then when they turn eighteen, queverla! hahahaha. mag makeup kang parang wala nang bukas, wala akong pakialam! dalaga ka na! parang debut ba.

    pero ang mga dalaginding dapat prim and proper. simple. like maximo oliveros. tshirt at shorts lang. tsaka konting baby powder. LOL!

  20. yes they should be able to wear those outfits. being gay is a choice

  21. firstimer,

    so you want us to cater to the moralists at the expense of gay people’s freedom of expression? youve defeated your own argument.

    kung hindi ka nila matanggap for being a crosssdresser, so be it. nobody can’t please everybody anyway

    to each his own.

  22. michael,

    its not a choice to be gay… where did you get that idea? are you gay yourself?

    we don’t choose, we just feel it..

  23. these kids need guidance, we could help put their life on track. they have a bright and colorful future ahead of them

  24. I started wearing really short shorts when I was 13, even though I became aware of my gayness since kindergarten.

  25. blueharajuku

    Jul 22, 2007
    Reply

    my 2 euros:

    its okay to be gutsy, but not like this. this is an inappropriate move. They need guidance from their parents, and they should not be lenient with this (or baka sa bahay pa macho effect ang mga to). but bottomline, they are too young to wear skimpy and slutty looking outfits like those, heck those are not even an outfit, its bandanas for love’s sake..

  26. blueharajuku

    Jul 22, 2007
    Reply

    ehem = those are bandanas for love’s sake…

  27. disgusting!!! absolutely! but it’s supposed to be a “free” world–to each his own. pity these kids–they’ll probably get beaten up more times than one can imagine.

  28. gosh, nakakatawa ang mga gay homophobes dito..
    instead na support at tolerance ang ipakita sa kapwa bading, sila pa ang puro prejudice at bigotry.

    kailangan bang maging intolerant tayo sa iba to feel good about ourselves at sabihing mas better tayo sa ibang gays?

    kung walang effeminate sa society, hindi maeexpose ang society sa existence ng gay community at kung walang visibility ang gay community, hindi marerecognize ang ating karapatan sa lipunan

  29. instead na magpadikta tayo sa society na ok lang mambugbog ng mga bakla, why not change our thinking at maging ehemplo ng tolerance at respect sa society

  30. sa mga paminta ritong nagmamalinis:

    kahit ano pang decent ang pananamit niyo sa society, society will always frown upon you because you’re gays

    imbis na kayo ang magdikta sa lipunan na MALI ang prejudice at BIGOTRY, kayo ang nagpapadikta sa lipunan na ok lang magdiscriminate ng mga gays dahil sa iba sila

  31. Go girls…fabulous…aliw!!!

  32. there’s always a perfect time and place for everything. we are called to observe proper demeanor. yes, these kids deviate from social norms. as more mature and responsible members of the gay community i reckon that we need to step up for them instead of lambasting them.

    you guys should know better..

  33. kakaiba! i don’t think there’s such a thing as too early to be gay, but…kung parent ka ba hahayaan mo ang anak mong lalaki na makihalubilo sa kanila at this age?!?!? i don’t want to be mean or anything like that, but i also don’t want to be a hypocrite myself by saying that that is their expression of individual yet will never entertain the thought that this will happen to my children…perhaps the ones above who take the line of individuality are willing to do so, then so be it…am just expressing my own ideas.

  34. ganda ganda naman. mga future adas, didis, and zsazsas ang mga itech!!!

  35. yes, most parents wouldn’t want their kids to become gay

    meron akong kalaro, we’re the same age then, mga 8 years kami, binabae siya pero hindi siya nagbibihis babae at tinutuksong bakla sa neigborhood namin. yung tatay niya macho at yun binugbog siya para tumino at magpakalalaki. kung sana naaccept siya ng parents, hindi mangyayari yun….. it’s unhealthy sa mga bata na irepress ang feelings nila. bilang mga adults, dapat mas naiintindihan natin ang kalagayan nila. weve been there, at bilang mga gays, dapat mas alam nating, mahirap irepress ang feelings at magtago…

  36. oops, na delete ko yung part na:

    after few months ng pambubugbog ng tatay niya, nagsuicide siya. masyado akong naapektuhan sa pangyayaring dahil narealize ko kung gaano kahirap maging gay at alam kong gay ako since i was 5.

  37. I suggest na ayusin muna nila profesional life nila kasi mahal ang mga make-up kit at mga accesories. besides, kokonti lang ang mga bading na hindi successful… hehehe…

  38. cguro ok lang na magladlad sila pero wag naman to the point magpapakababa sila na lalabas silang kabastos-bastos sa harap ng ibang tao.

    at tama, hindi madali ang buhay ng mga bading (from my own experience, emotionally draining po…as in sobra!) kaya maging responsible sila sa mga actions nila and respect other people para respetuhin ka rin nila.

    at saka pag umibig dont give 100%…magtira po para sa sarili!

    kudos sa lahat ng bading the buong mundo.

  39. mouthworxz

    Aug 24, 2007
    Reply

    hayaan ang mga bata! those are the things na sarap pagtawanan pag naaalala. For sure excited sila kung sino unang magkakaron ng boyfriend!

  40. karapatan!
    freedom!
    hangga’t walang nasasaktan,
    bakit hindi?

  41. hay buhay!

  42. diba gay rin tayo? diba dapat tayo ang unang umiintindi sa mga batang ito?

    hindi ka ba dumaan sa pagkabata? diba super hirap iexpress ang emotions? ako, myself… i still cry each night remembering how i hide my gayness. tapos may mga taong mapanghusga na lalaitin ka!

  43. badmintonboy

    Apr 20, 2008
    Reply

    mas mainggit kayo sa mga baklang ito kasi as early as their teenhood…..they are capable of expressing themselves…hindi tulad ng mga pa-mhinta! i’m proud of them dahil sa murang edad…kinaya nila lahat ng prejudices at lumaban silad — at home, family, and society at large. kaya nga itong mga batang ito ang nagiging successful pagtanda - hair dresser, fashion designer, director, etc.

  44. as far as i remeber bading na talaga ako… hindi ko talga matandaan na nagkagusto ako sa kahit na sinong babae or chovanes…
    hindi ko na kailanagan ng bato para maging c darna kasi parang ako na c nanete medved ng pinanganak ako…

  45. di na usO sexbOmb ngaYon…

    kitty girls yang mga yan.

    hahahha..Saya tingnan.

  46. i saw a documentary much similar to this. i have a gut feeling that these teenage gays were featured on that i-witness docu.

    maybe if i was in their age i’d probably prefer to wear skimpy clothing as well… but i don’t know…cos if you try to dig deeper it would look like you’re degrading yourself already… not to mention the shame you might bring to your family.

    well, kudos to them for ‘expressing’ themselves. i think we can all just comment on sexuality issues but not judge or impose morality values.

  47. randomgayguy

    Jul 3, 2008
    Reply

    go gurls! i really miss my gay friends in the Philippines. haaay. pero payo lang mga hija. mag-aral muna kayu at magtapos bago rumampa ng todo para “the future looks bright” sabi nga sa tv ad

  48. its ok to be gay. but you must retain your dignity and honor. you must learn how to flow with this discriminating world. be not a cheap kind, but be refined, modest and finesse to attain your merit. don’t allow anyone to bring you down. BE SUCCESSFUL AND NO ONE COULD STEP ON YOU. like me, im a proud gay but im a successful doctor of medicine at St. Luke’s Medical Center, walang tumatapak sakin, bagkus ginagalang at nirerespeto nila ako. (naranasan kong matapakan, pero hindi ko na hinayaang maulit muli ito.)


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