Is Migs Falling in Love?
We were on the phone for a total of 7 hours these past 48. Considering we’re both busy corporate blokes. He was the first to make me burn the phone lines till the break of dawn, as if there is no 9 AM business meeting to attend. Is Migs finally falling in love?
Even if Migs is, he would not let it happen. He prides himself with almost total control of his heart. Meanwhile, the guy on the other end of the line starts becoming more involved and sweet. Migs for a moment savors the kilig moments, but is indeed steadfast with his decision not to fall. Even when sweet, caring text messages started to regularly pour in. Even when the guy reveals, which he usually does not, his malambing side.
Why?
Because Migs does not want to be a querida. A querida to a straight guy with a girlfriend. And he does not want to sing “Hiram” – hindi kaya ng vocal range ko. Hehehe!
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July 3rd, 2007 at 2:16 pm
whaaat? ano ka ba migs magpakabobo ka naman paminsan-minsan when it comes to ‘lurv’…hahaha
anyways, bilib ako sa pride mo, yung iba dyan, paramdaman lang ng type nilang guy luhod agad at walang pakialam sa mga consequence na pwedeng mangyari.
well, i guess things will be different if that ’straight’ guy is not in a relationship with a girl…am i right or wrong? deal or no deal?
July 3rd, 2007 at 3:19 pm
Hmmmm, I’m puzzled. Why would a “straight” guy want a gay relationship? Anyway, as my Mom use to say to me when she didn’t quite know how to deal with me - Hay, dios mio, hijo.
July 3rd, 2007 at 3:28 pm
please, be a querida. try mo lang. try mo rin sing hiram sa mas mababang pitch.
July 3rd, 2007 at 4:03 pm
Sarap nman nian, naalala ko nung querida ako, bwahahaha, sarap na masakit! parang pag ano, ano nga ba ang topic?
July 3rd, 2007 at 4:04 pm
migs, pahirit ha, hiram lang naman eh, di mo naman aangkinin, at least pag ayaw mo na eh di isoli
July 3rd, 2007 at 5:22 pm
ace is right. why, indeed, would a “straight” guy want a M2M thing? be wary of such people–something is just amiss.
July 3rd, 2007 at 6:00 pm
yeah something must be wrong somewhere.. why would a straight guy court a gay guy? haaay, that somehow defies reason but anyway, i guess the guy isn’t straight. period.
a straight man would never have a relationship with a gay guy not unless it’s for some monetary reason..
migs, kung ayaw mo sa akin na lang yan… hahaha
July 3rd, 2007 at 6:19 pm
try mo lang migs, wala namang nagmahal na nde nasaktan weh. importante kahit panandalian, naging masaya ka!
July 3rd, 2007 at 9:01 pm
Its the olay total effects doing the trick. One of the effect is turning straight men gay!
July 3rd, 2007 at 9:51 pm
Hold on to your feelings Migs.
Straight guy situations like yours is the most complex although they come in to our minds and our hearts as VERY enticing.
And may chance pa na maging querida. *sigh
This kind of situation happened to me a year ago, after that, dumating ang poot ang bitterness.
Hope things will turn out fine for you
July 3rd, 2007 at 10:53 pm
wala akong masabi sobrang ganda mo MIGS pero i doubt the Straightness of the alleged guy, may naamoy ako…AMOY berdeng dugo, lalalalalalalala pero if i were you MIGS masarap ang straight gawing bottom, its like the ultimate F–K lalalalala
July 4th, 2007 at 12:06 am
i for migs. dont dip your foot into the murky waters..
July 4th, 2007 at 12:20 am
hold on to your heartsrings - love is a bumpy ride!
July 4th, 2007 at 12:42 am
Hmmm.. you never know, he might actually dump his girlfriend. There are two things that may explain him with you: a) he’s got an ulterior motive 2) he’s either bi or gay, and finds it hard to come out, thus has to keep the straight facade up.
You won’t be a real querida unless he’s married. Hehehe. So maybe.. take it over for a test drive?
July 4th, 2007 at 2:17 am
give it a chance, Migs. loving is the very essence of living.
July 4th, 2007 at 2:53 am
base from experience, it is never a good idea to fall for a straight guy..it will kill u..trust me..i know…
July 4th, 2007 at 3:18 am
dear migs,
sa tingin ko naman walang masama sa pagiging querida ng isang straight guy that is kung i-re-recognize ka niya as his querida. in the first place that is what love is all about, it sees beyond boundaries including gender kaya when you get in that situation kahit alam mo na eventually matutuyuan ka ng dugo sa laki ng sugat na ibibigay sayo ng pagmamahal mo, itutuloy mo parin kasi alam mo na this is the real thing. pero neng, kahit na sabihin pa nating love can move mountains chuva kulang parin yun dahil hindi lang naman isang mountain ang reality. fact is, ikaw na rin nag-label sa kanya as straight, hindi niya magagawang suwayin kung ano man yung standards of being straight kaya kahit na sabihin natin na siguro pagibig nga yan, hindi padin niya iiwan yung gf niya para sa bakla. all we can do is to just enjoy every moment and hope for the best. we can only get too close because it’s inevitable that he’ll find he’s way back to his straight path and we should do the same. it will hurt pero at least we know how to really love (background music: “you and i both” by jason mraz)
setsuna
July 4th, 2007 at 3:20 am
believe me, he’s not straight. a guy who sends sweet nothings to another guy is straight? puleeezzzz…give me a break!
so don’t worry that you’re falling for a straight guy, because he is certainly not. just fall…and you’ll be happy.
July 4th, 2007 at 3:33 am
korek…hwag na migs….pakinggan mo na lang ang mga theme song ng movies ni ate vi and you will learn how painful it is to be a querida…. like gaano kadalas ang minsan….”ngunit kung pag-ibig ay di rin lang wagas, mabuti pa…mabuti nga hangga’t maaga’y nagwakas…pagkukunwari’y itago man ay lalabas…”
July 4th, 2007 at 5:30 am
dear migs,
sa tingin ko naman walang masama sa pagiging querida ng isang straight guy that is kung i-re-recognize ka niya as his querida. in the first place that is what love is all about, it sees beyond boundaries including gender kaya when you get in that situation kahit alam mo na eventually matutuyuan ka ng dugo sa laki ng sugat na ibibigay sayo ng pagmamahal mo, itutuloy mo parin kasi alam mo na this is the real thing. pero neng, kahit na sabihin pa nating love can move mountains chuva kulang parin yun dahil hindi lang naman isang mountain ang reality. fact is, ikaw na rin nag-label sa kanya as straight, hindi niya magagawang suwayin kung ano man yung standards of being straight kaya kahit na sabihin natin na siguro pagibig nga yan, hindi padin niya iiwan yung gf niya para sa bakla. all we can do is to just enjoy every moment and hope for the best. we can only get too close because it’s inevitable that he’ll find he’s way back to his straight path and we should do the same. it will hurt pero at least we know how to really love (background music: “you and i both” by jason mraz)
setsuna
July 4th, 2007 at 5:32 am
IF YOU GUYS HAVENT SEEN IT EACH OTHER YET IN PERSON, THERES NO NEED TO MAKE KILIG OR MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF NOTHING. REALLY.
July 4th, 2007 at 6:54 am
GO! Love does not wait. Neither can lust. One thing great about being gay is that we could turn-off and tune out any emotional baggage of loves that did not work out (we’re still wired like men, remember) … and believe me honey, there is a reason why most gay anthems are discofied versions of torch songs. Tapos when all this craziness is over, you could once again start posting photos of fine-lookin’ dudes on your blog …yeaa, I miss those. Miss ya baby!
July 4th, 2007 at 9:24 am
ha! switching from 1st person to 3rd person POV!
July 4th, 2007 at 9:43 am
sigh…str8???flirting wid a gay!!!
wer s dat damn dictionary…
cant believe it…i tot but i guess it falls on deaf ears na…or shall we say na luma na kasi ung post…but the reason y i keep on coming here was dat i tot dis s not a homophobic one…i tot we had d same views to correct n educate peps of our existence…but how cud we do dat wen…sigh…
its not ur pride miggs dat stops u from taking dat str8 guy but one reason he is homophobic…for one dat u call him str8…
July 4th, 2007 at 10:28 am
Follow you heart, Mare. Malay natin, ikaw ang magwawagi eventually.
July 4th, 2007 at 10:50 am
we’re definitely going to have a LOT to talk about saturday. with that said, it’s confirmed! ;D give me details! MISS YOU!
July 4th, 2007 at 11:29 am
ASUUUS!
July 4th, 2007 at 11:35 am
’straight’ guys are the best tops…
July 4th, 2007 at 1:25 pm
wow, spread the love and keep it up! i’m happy for you, hehe.
July 4th, 2007 at 4:52 pm
Pa Girl ka din pala.
GF lang naman e, hindi pa asawa. Maraming talagang ganyan strait, butterflying everywhere, theres no harm in trying diba. Give love a chance! Kung love nga, pero kung elya lang mas pabor… 
July 4th, 2007 at 4:59 pm
Baka nman confused lang si guy migz, have tons of straight friends who confessed that once they doubted themselves as straight persons when we got close. But it’s good to hear you enjoy the kilig moments. Hold on tight migz, hirap yan kapag nafall ka. see you around.
July 4th, 2007 at 5:16 pm
Ipakilala mo kay Corporate Closet siya. Dali! Hahahahaha.
(Joke lang, CC.)
July 4th, 2007 at 8:02 pm
try mo migs.. malay mo…
kasi yung ’straight guy’ na nanligaw sa akin ay di ko pinatos… kahit na super gwapo + mvp pa ng basketball sa town namin eh naku… alam kong ako lang masasaktan sa huli… kaya kahit na pinakaiisip ko hanggang ngayon na ‘ano kayang mangyayari kung sinagot ko sya?’
hmm.. try mo din migs, but wag ka nalang papaka fall para di ka ma hurt if ever man na iwan ka nya ^^,
whatever makes you happy eh just follow it. at least you tried.. ^^,
anyway ung basketballistang guy na nanligaw sa kin eh mya gf na ngayon, at pag nakikita ko eh lagi sya nakatingin sa akin kahit kasama gf nya…
good day~
July 4th, 2007 at 8:57 pm
Bravo Migz,
you’re a better man than I am
July 5th, 2007 at 1:42 am
migs,
hold your heart with one hand and just take the leap !
cheers
K
July 5th, 2007 at 9:37 am
migs, sabihin mo lang kung gusto mong ipa assasinate yung mujer niya, nkastanby lang kami…charing!
July 5th, 2007 at 12:49 pm
on the other hand migs..
i know madami na nagsabi nito but, will you be happy if you know that you stepped on someones heart??just a question for you.
i’ve been with the same scenario and believe me sa una masaya, you’re always together, having fun, loved each other but it didn’t last dahil cguro nag start sa mali natapos din ng mali.
“kahit alam mo na kaya mong gawin ang isang bagay, hindi ibig sabihin nito ay dapat mo na itong gawin”
one of my most favorite line…just wanna share it migs.
July 5th, 2007 at 2:40 pm
While it’s good to share your love with everyone, be sure to remember to love yourself as well.
I’m sure you know what the right thing to do is.
July 5th, 2007 at 8:12 pm
being very virgo, fair maiden?
July 5th, 2007 at 10:25 pm
leche! ang dami naman tumalak!
ganito kasi yan … migs, bago ka mag-illusiyon na ma-in-love at maging querida eh magkatikiman kaya muna kayo sa kama para magkasubukan. baka mamaya ayaw niyang humada at gusto niya lang laila dee. eh di naman yata tama yon! dama nga ikaw ang sinusuyo kasi ikaw ang querida!
yung lang!
the one and only authority about querida!
anton maton
July 5th, 2007 at 10:38 pm
minsan ka lang mabuhay.
July 6th, 2007 at 7:23 am
Purrr, fast forward agad ang replies dito. Migs, ano ba talaga feel mo sa guy, is he courting you o gusto lang ng may karamay? I have friends who talk more with gay friends but in fact, walang intentions to fall in love with a gay kasi magaling daw tayo makiramay. Let’s not judge and let Migs reveal the true intentions before we make our conclusions.
World peace!
July 8th, 2007 at 3:00 am
don’t live a life full of what ifs. follow your heart, migs. if things don’t work out. then it’s not meant to be and you have to move on.
i am a querida myself. i was hesitant at first. but i love my guy so much that i am willing to risk. and he did risk too. and now, two year na kami. still going stronger. and it’s all about give and take.
i want to grow old with him. and to me, he is perfect.
July 8th, 2007 at 10:04 pm
I READ THAT, MCVIE! HMMP
seriously, migs, burning the lines talking to a straight guy? asus. straight ang hair siguro
July 13th, 2007 at 12:10 pm
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July 14th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
Haaay….ang alam ko ang title nito pag naging movie…ILUSYON. Phone pa lang naman in love na. Nako sa tingin ko hindi pa. Although, it’s nice to have kilig moments sometimes. Parang feeling dalagita. Take it easy migs!
July 16th, 2007 at 1:51 am
kung papatul sa bakla, di balka rin siya. nag sinungaling siya. straight guys never talk on the phone for hours, nabored sila. kung my girlfriend siya, two timer and cheater siya. kung my principle ang tao, bakit naman iintindihin siya. siguro yung manga desperados and papatul sa kanya.
August 21st, 2007 at 7:33 pm
hay nako. hindi yan straight. straight acting pwede pa, or probably bi. a straight guy wont burn the phone with another guy, sabi nga sa mga naunang comments. Un na un.
August 24th, 2007 at 10:15 am
i think they’re right…
who would do such a thing.
Even i won’t do it… 7 hours? crazy..
1. May be he is starting to like you.
or
2. May be he’s going through a rough time with his gf.
who know?, SInce alam naman nyang may feelings ka s knya, just be straight forward.. ask him why he is doing it… ano ba talaga..
out ka naman so walang mawawala sayo pare… wg mong hayaang dumaan ang mga araw na naguguluhan ka. sayang ang panahon… ok lang kahit i two time ka nya. parealize mo lng later na sino ang tamang piliin. kung hindi ikaw then just accept it.. but be warned… masakit un..
by the way, i really love the song you give me something…
it makes you wanna hope…