Sweet Enough to be a Sugar Daddy?
Was laughing out loud reading a fellow blogger’s post entitled “Cute Manga“. He met a cute guy who turns out to be a friendly user (i.e., manga as in manga-gamit). And blogger friend was just too happy to be user-friendly. Shortly after the initial meeting, he was giving him pasa-load, Grande Starbucks drinks, free lunch (with take-out pa!), etcetera… because, as he says, money is not an issue anymore (translation: rich ang lola mo). But it got me thinking, if indeed money is not an issue, would I go as far as being a sponsor, otherwise known as “Sugar Daddy”? My pride says, no. My beauty says, hey I’m still here, may asim ka pang puhunan. But you — what do you say? — would you allow yourself to be so sweet as to be a sugary Sugar Daddy?
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March 23rd, 2007 at 1:31 am
Haha why not! If super cute nung guy and besides kung kaya ko lang naman maging Sugar Daddy haha…but no am not!
DYOSA ako eh at hindi Sugar Daddy hahaha!
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:33 am
Hell no. Sometimes, we always say that money is never the issue not until the other person does something wrong, then we try to remember all the amounts we had spent to make such relationship work. I may spend, but spending on everything? I’ll think again.
March 23rd, 2007 at 7:20 am
of course NO! that will never be sweet, it would make the other person think na ok lang ang libre which is not good… ever if money is not an issue. let’s admit that sometimes it’s good to give but when you realize that the favor is not being returned, hmmm… you need to think honey!
March 23rd, 2007 at 7:38 am
Hitting two birds with one stone - Pleasure and Generosity (or alms). Hehe, o nga pala, kaming dalawa- two birds.
March 23rd, 2007 at 7:48 am
nakakaloka… bakla na nga bangko pa hehehe…
pero sad naman nun kung nagiging friendly lang sayo yung isang tao dahil meron siya nakukuha in return.
March 23rd, 2007 at 8:17 am
hindi. dapat ako ang gagastusan.
March 23rd, 2007 at 8:26 am
sad to say… this is a setup that im all too familiar with…
ashamed as i am to say this, im in this type of relationship…
im the sugar daddy.
although it hurts being used (i think)… its the closest thing that i will ever get to having a relationship with a cute guy…
stupid noh?
reason behind it… im sick of trying my luck to do it the “right” way… coz i dont even get to the getting-to-know-you-part…
guys shut-me-down even before i say a single word…
so in weighing the two…
getting rejected over and over again vs being with somebody who, at the surface, seems to be just using me…
id choose the latter…
March 23rd, 2007 at 8:33 am
well..i think i can help…or let’s say support someone…but not to the point of the other party becoming mendicant. namputsa naman…pati pang-fitness first sa iyo pa naka-charge…magbuhat na lang siya ng sako! abah, kukuha na lang ako ng kargador sa quiapo…low maintenance pa! kaunting make-over lang din ang kailangan…iyung mga ala-julio diaz at alan paule ang dating….lamang tiyan din iyon ineng…ika nga ni aling bebang…sing sarap pero di sing mahal..wais talaga! Iyan ang Surf!
March 23rd, 2007 at 9:15 am
if hes super cute go for it. Kung chaka wiz
March 23rd, 2007 at 9:24 am
i agree with gina cole…i’ve been there and done that but at the end of the day, ikaw di ang mamumulubi….reality check lang, pag ikaw ba ang nawalan ng pera, tutulungan ka ba nya??? hell, noh, da bah?
March 23rd, 2007 at 9:47 am
confessions of a chismoso…
sadly, we do stupid things when we are in love.
i’m not ugly. in fact, i’ve had a lot of admirers, suitors, and the like. the main fault I have is that when I fall in love, I fall HARD.
I was in a long distance relationship and I spent for everything. When i’d go to where he was, I’d spend for my transportation and accomodations. Whenever he’d come to Manila, I’d pay for his transportation, food, and accomodations. Heck! I’d even give him shopping money!
All of these at a young age of 26!!!
Sometimes, we don’t realize how much we’re spending if our heart is doing the dictating.
March 23rd, 2007 at 9:56 am
Been there, done that - don’t want to go that way again, as in ever…Generosity gives you a ego-trip but you can only go so far as your money holds..
March 23rd, 2007 at 10:06 am
as long as i don’t over spend…
March 23rd, 2007 at 10:32 am
Sugar Daddy na walang sex! Kaloka yan ha… sasakit ulo ko dian…
March 23rd, 2007 at 10:35 am
.. and I highly suggest pag ginamit ka, gamitin mo din siya.
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:09 am
Bigla naman akong nalungkot sa mga nabasa ko, kasi bigla kong naisip na nangyayari talaga itong issue na’to sa totong buhay, na parang dumarating sa punto ng buhay ng mga bading na parang bumibili na lang sila ng pagmamahal (or even just company). Masakit pero totoo, diba?
Nabiktima kasi ako ng ganyan ng unang bf ko. Freshness pa’ko non, kakatuntong lang ng 18. Sya naman eh mid to late 20s na, mataba, masama ang ugali, chaka; in other words, a pathetic excuse for a bf and human being. Sa edad kong 18 eh nagawa nya akong paikutin at gatasan. Pero dahil nga bulag ang pag-ibig, hindi ko na namalayan yun. Nagising lang ako nang mahalata kong medyo wala na’kong madukot sa bulsa ko at nangangailangan na ng pagsulsi.
Iniwan din nya ako eventually — it’s the only thing I was grateful for in our so-called relationship.
I’m 27 now and have vowed not to commit the same pitiful mistake. But who knows, diba?
Migs, ano ba namang topic ito? Nakaka-depress…
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:18 am
andrew…..
kakadepress nga…pero reality bites…gusto mo tayo na lang dalawa? wala pang money involve….hahahahah joke! peace tau!
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:35 am
mga tol, dapat yata eh tayo tayo nalang mag “date” para kkb ang gastos!
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:38 am
tama ka josh…dali punta ka dito sa new york…i totour kita kung yan gusto mo…
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:43 am
mahal ba pamasahe dyan? baka may roro papunta dyan, go me dyan kagad. (lov ya bakekang, musta na kristal at charisma???)
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:45 am
haaaayy, it is in this situation that you really say that “tigah is one lucky guy for having pooh!”
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:51 am
why NOT? im GAY as a goose! some people get their sense of being when they help others that includes boyfriends huh! so if u guys need some help just hit me
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:20 pm
Inday_garalgal, I need help. Hihihi!
Manay_BakekangMD, siguro nga tama ka. Sige, tayo na lang dalawa, masaya pa. Padalhan mo’ko ng ticket papunta jan. Gusto ko mag-tour sa Manhattan a la Carrie Bradshaw. Hihihi!
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:22 pm
hay nako josh…namimiss ko na nga kristal at charisma tagal ko nang di nakakapanood ng kapuso….sana magkaroon kami ng local gma dito, available lang sya kase sa direct TV. speaking of what garalgal was saying, kung marami ka namang pera garalgal, why not di ba?
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:23 pm
andrew….
walang problema! hahahahah. talang si carrie pa ha! dalhin kita sa rainbow room…..and i bet, makakalimutan mo kung ano pangalan mo pag kasama mo ako dun….
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:40 pm
Pede din si Charlotte kasi virgin ako, gaya ni Migs, hihihi!
What’s a rainbow room? Nakakaintriga ang pangalan ah. Anung meron don?
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:45 pm
Virgin? whahahaha….well, di sya katulad ng Rainbow room dyan sa atin( na puro kalaswaan ang laman)….The rainbow Room is the observation deck of the Empire state building…..ang ganda pag nandun ka sa taas…grabe! may friendster ka?
March 23rd, 2007 at 12:59 pm
nagkakamabutihan ang mga potah, hehehe. masasabi ko lang, i had 3 bf’s and never naging issue samin ang money, pero that was 4 years ago. nagyon matanda nko, wala na yatang nagkakagus2 sakin, (CHOZE) pero still im not desperate to pay for attention and company. yun nga lang tigang ako for 4 years, bwahahahaha
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:03 pm
hay nako cliogoddess, si dr. belo ang solusyon dyan…..wag mong gastusin ang pera mo sa mga lalaki….sa pampapaganda mo gamitin…..marami ngayong bagong services si doktora!….e anu ngayon ang status mo? gumagastos ka pa rin ba? baka naman meron ka dyan? pashare naman…..whahahaha
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:08 pm
Wala na… si Cliogoddess na ang ultimate virgin. Nagsara na lahat ng butas na pedeng pasukin sa kanya ultimo pores sa apat na taong pagkatigang, hihihi! *klap, klap, klap*
Jowk lang.
Bakekang, meron akong Friendster kaya lang nahihiya akong i-post dito. Baka kasi i-view ako ng mga tao dito tapos lait-laitin lang ako ng iba, hehe! Although di ako panget huh. (Defensive??? Hahaha!)
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:13 pm
pano yan? hay nako…guess…di na tayo magkikita pa…..
la ka bang work? breaktime mo? dito kase 1:12am na…di ako makatulog….
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:34 pm
Anu ba yun, parang ginawa na nating chatroom ‘tong MGG, Bakekang, haha! Pasensya na Migs.
Kung gusto mo, ‘kaw na lang ang mag-post dito ng Friendster account mo. Add na lang kita. Mas malakas naman ‘ata ang loob mo sa’kin eh, hehe!
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:41 pm
hahhaha….sorry po sa mr. moderator….sorry andrew…..di rin kase pwede ma post yung URL ko eh…
March 23rd, 2007 at 2:04 pm
Ay wow naging chatroom and site na eto….VIRGIN pa ba si Migs???
March 23rd, 2007 at 2:15 pm
sugar daddy? bakit - mukha ba akong ATM? sorry na lang sila at maganda pa rin ang lola mong itu! mahaba at shiny ang buhok at higit sa lahat - may asim!
gusto ko talaga maging isang querida!yung lang!
still aspiring to be a querida,
anton maton
March 23rd, 2007 at 6:21 pm
heller? are you buying love? well this is my opinion and heres what i do. first meeting and after that i wont give him what i can give. ill have restrictions. kasi i myself would doubt kung ako ba mahal nya or the things i can give to him na obviously he cant afford. even if kami na i would stil not give it ol. cguro after a year or more. and to have not this dilemme, mamili ng super hott na, super rich pa. hahaha. just as i have right now.
March 23rd, 2007 at 6:42 pm
I read the Cute-Manga post and it seems that the cute guy is not as thick as the Sugar Daddy blogger says he is. He is certainly thick-faced in asking for so many things, with no sex yet, and then telling the Sugar Daddy that he’s getting married next month! At this point I think Sugar Daddy should just drop Cute-Manga immediately and try to minimize the damage already done to his ego and bank balance!
March 23rd, 2007 at 6:57 pm
i must admit, i’ve been like this before… no, not the mangga but the daddy… i’m stupid when i’m in love….
March 23rd, 2007 at 7:46 pm
guess, if you have 4 savings account and 2 dollar accounts and if your at least earning 100,000 pesos a month and you have stock bonds in at least 3 blue chip companies, and you have a fully furnished house worth 2.5 million and you have 3 cars all of which are either BMWs or JAGUARS and your friends have surnames ending in Araneta, Ayala or Zobel. Then it’s not really a problem.
Yet, it is not really the money, its always the person or the entity handling the money. I dear say my friend, that your sending a very wrong impression here. People of low level intelligence might be inclined towards the idea that spending “money” on a very arrogant, ignorant, and selfish hustler is ok.
To tell you honestly, I’m so aghast upon reading your entry. Many may say that its ok, if in fact he is really good-looking. And it may also depend on the reason why you are spending money on that hustler. Do you actually do the same things that you do to that hustler with your FRIENDS and RELATIVES?
Either way, it’s your life. You spend your money the way you want to spend it. Your rich, i think, based on your infamous statement that money is not a problem.
I just hope your “intelligent” enough to figure things out. Stupidity has no place in this world.
March 23rd, 2007 at 7:46 pm
i say no. kuripot ako, at walang ibang taong makikinabang ng yaman ko, period. =)
March 23rd, 2007 at 8:42 pm
Migs wen wud u post the continuation of boracay EB? hmp anong petsa na?
March 23rd, 2007 at 10:19 pm
did i read somebody wanting to be a querida??? you want to apply?
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:29 pm
hi closet! yup… im the one! aspiring to be a querida. where can i send my application letter and my CV? nyahahaha!
March 23rd, 2007 at 11:40 pm
anton maton! ako rin….gusto ko maging querida….
March 24th, 2007 at 6:35 am
anu ba yun bading na, bangko pa at kabit pa parang ayaw talaga nating pumunta sa langit charing lang…
being gay is fun and sad at the same time. and usually the sad part is growing old alone. siguro it’s the sad truth with being gay in this society. it shouldn’t push us to lower our standards for happiness by paying for someone to give it to us. siguro yun ang use ng friends for us. i think gay people are very good friends and i guess they are like that for this purpose… este we are like that pala…
i have to admit that i am currently in a situation where parang i am tempted to spend for the guy just to treat him lang what’s stopping me is that thought of becoming a “matrona” … bading an matrona pa nakakaloka… add pa natin na he already got a gf, who i am friends with, and they’re planning their wedding for next year. i tried to get out pero i just can’t help it. so iiyak na lang ako ng dugo next year… para sa pagibig… bring it on hehehe…
March 24th, 2007 at 11:16 am
i guess it all depends if the situation calls for it. my bf is jobless for months now, his father is sick, his mom earns just enough to feed his siblings. so, how on earth would he survive without my assistance? i never dreamt on wearing this shoe and i know the the easy way out but i guess he is just one lucky bastard (j/k!) i don’t wanna be branded as sugar daddy but if what i’m doing described me as one, so be it. u can call it stupidy but then i call it love.
March 25th, 2007 at 12:39 am
parang familiar na sakin ang eksena na ito… ahehe parang madalas! ngaun hindi na
March 25th, 2007 at 10:51 am
Love? It makes a college degree holder acts like a kindergarten student.
March 26th, 2007 at 1:26 am
aba eh kung katulad ba naman ni JOHN MARION WILSON ng JRU Heavy Bombers ang ii-sponsoran ko, ok lang…dyusko, mamatay ata ako sa “kadakilaan” nun!!!…macho na, gwapo pa, daks pa san ka pa!
March 29th, 2007 at 11:47 am
di ba me movie na me line na “o di ba? ang sarap ng hinuhuthutan”…. kakambal na yata ng buhay bading yan eh…. ako, nangyari na yan sa akin…. dinadatungan … noon.. noon yun… pero ngayon medyo na lang, lolz… sa totoo lang, yan na tayo eh…
March 29th, 2007 at 12:43 pm
Sino naman ‘tong JOHN MARION WILSON ng JRU Heavy Bombers, Mahaderang_Tamaraw? San naman namin sya masisilayan? Hehe!